Wednesday, February 15, 2017

There Are Probably No Calendars or Clocks in the Afterlife

The Truth in Blogging Law says that I must inform you that this post is pre-blogged. I am typing it at 10:30 on Monday night, February 13th.

I already have several ideas in my queue, with outlines in my head, that I've been planning to write this week. And I will be blurbing my latest fake book on Friday, so I'm not sure when I'll let this one out. But I'm writing it up while it's going down, by cracky!

You might remember that on Thursday, February 9th, I wrote about some odd coincidences happening in my life during the early days of February. How on Sunday night, February 5th, I had a dream in which my mom was sitting off to herself at a party, and when I asked what was wrong, she said, "Well, I'm a little sad. My friend [REDACTED] just passed away." As I wrote, this dream seemed very real, and I shed a couple of tears over it the next morning.

What I didn't mention was that I spent several days perusing the internet, looking to see if there was an obituary for [REDACTED]. Just...you know...to see if she had died years ago, or maybe if she really HAD passed away on February 5th when I had that dream. I tried the local online newspaper, and a couple of local funeral homes. Nothing. I tried a couple of Mom's other friends' names, in the cities where I last knew them to live, and even one in Florida. Nothing. Nada. I decided that it was just a weird dream, and that IF one of those friends had died, it was so far back that her name wasn't coming up in my searches. No big deal. I was just curious.

About 15 minutes ago, I was skimming local news. There's a murder investigation going on, and the paper has been updating a couple times throughout the day. A relative of the victim attended the school I just retired from, thus the interest. Seeing no updates at this time, I scrolled down the main page to the obituaries. I don't normally go there. Last week Hick had me looking for an old classmate of his. But I haven't looked for that for five or six days. I just scrolled down on a whim.

[REDACTED] was the first name on the obituary list.

Huh. I'm kind of surprised. The date of death was Sunday, February 12th, one week past Sunday, February 5th, the date my mom appeared in my dream saying she was sad because [REDACTED] had passed away.

It's a crazy coincidental world out there. I wonder if Mom knows anything about PowerBall...

14 comments:

  1. Maybe your mom can send you some winning numbers via sleepmail.

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    1. She needs to tell me to WAKE UP! Because I forgot to get a ticket for last night's PowerBall. I only play it when it's way up there, but it's okay! Looks like nobody won. So it's $349 million for Saturday night's drawing.

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    1. There's something strange in my neighborhood!

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    2. The ORIGINAL Ghostbusters. Not the remake Ghostbusters.

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  3. Y'know I keep asking for PowerBall numbers from anyone anywhere who says "anything else I can do for you?" So far, no takers. Or givers.

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    1. I just play the random numbers, machine-generated. And only a few times a year. It's not like they're scratch-off tickets! I rarely even win $4.00.

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    1. I'm glad I was running the little heater under my desk when I saw that name pop up in the obituaries!

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  5. Val--This is truly hair-raising, as in "this story made the hair on my arms raise up."

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    1. Welcome to MY world! At least I didn't give you an Einstein coiffure.

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  6. Ok, that is a little creepy. My mother used to visit in the wee hours shortly after she left this world. I wrote a letter to her and left it in her house when I was visiting my Dad. She leaves me alone now. My sister had visits as well, she threatened to tell Daddy and Mother disappeared from her bedside.

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    1. I'm glad I'm not the only one with these lines of communication. And more glad that mine are generally pleasant or informative.

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